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21 Male Body Language Signs of Attraction

Picture this: you find yourself in the presence of a dashing young man, a mysterious smile playing upon his lips, and you can’t help but wonder, “Does he like me?”

There are a number of subtle cues that men provide off when they’re attracted to someone, and once you know what to look for, you’ll be able to tell if he’s interested in you without having to guess.

According to renowned body language experts, there are subtle yet powerful body language cues that can make known a person’s interest. Drawing from years of investigate and observation, they stress the importance of combining multiple cues to decode someone’s body language accurately.

In this blog post, we’ll discuss some of the most common male body language signs of attraction. We’ll cover everything from eye contact and facial expressions to posture and gestures.

By the end of this post, you’ll be able to tell if that guy you’re interested in is just creature friendly or if he’s really into you. So what are

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Chapter 15

AFFAIRS OF THE HEART: SIGNALS OF ATTRACTION AND FLIRTATION

Try flirting without using body language. Go on, give it a go. Surprise! It can't be done. You simply can't convey passionate interest without the body getting into the execute. To play a really successful game of flirtation your body must talk what your mouth won't say.

If you're feeling fine about yourself the way you focus your eyes, position your mouth, and maneuver your shoulders, hips, and hands send out signals that say, 'Check me out! I contemplate you're hot!' After you get your target's attention you shift gears to hold onto his or her interest and relocate the attraction to another level. Finally, having captured and conquered the unsuspecting, or equally interested party, your body moves into a new mode of behaving that demonstrates comfort, ease, and familiarity. Observe how long-term lovers predict one another's actions by the way they shift in synch with their partners.

How you use your body exposes how ready you are for a bit of

The Science of Gaydar

As a presence in the world—a body hanging from a subway strap or pressed into an elevator, a figure crossing the street—I am neither markedly masculine nor notably effeminate. Nor am I typically perceived as androgynous, not in my uniform of Diesels and boots, not even when I was younger and favored dangling earrings and bright Jack Purcells. But most people immediately read me (correctly) as homosexual. It takes only a glance to make my authenticity obvious. I understand this from strangers who find homosexual people offensive enough to elicit a remark—catcalls from cab windows, to operate a recent example—as well as from countless casual social engagements in which people easily consider my orientation, no sensitive gaydar necessary. I’m not so much out-of-the-closet as “self-evident,” to utilize Quentin Crisp’s group of words, although being of a younger generation, I can’t subscribe to his doctrine that it is a kind of disfigurement requiring lavender hair rinse.

I once placed a personal ad in which I described myself as “gay-acting/gay-appearing,” partly as a jab at my peers who prefer to be t

As the author of the first body language book for homosexual men, I'm often asked how male body language affects guy-on-guy dating. The answer: plenty. But to understand why certain postures, gestures and expressions make you more appealing to gay guys, you have to understand the 5 major principles of homosexual body language:

#1. Words lie, bodies don't.

The truth leaks out of our bodies like a pockmarked water pail. As soon as we put a finger in one hole another one opens up. You may think you look calm, cool and composed, but look down -- your foot's tapping the floor fancy a woodpecker. Sexual signals rebound all over the place whenever gay men get together, and they're being sent with heads, eyes, arms, hands, legs, and feet. Yes, feet. Long story, keep reading.

#2. Your body language changes when you observe somebody hot. And you're usually not aware of it.

Hidden camera studies show that a man's posture changes when he sees somebody that turns him on. He, or more to the point, YOU, will:

  1. Pull your stomach. (To look sleeker)
  2. Throw your shoulders back (to occupy more space)
  3. Pu